It does help. Do you have any good articles on detaching? I'm in a transition period on my R and am really confused on what to do (stay or go). Basic stich. Hadn't talked for about 3 months, then I contacted her with something very light and friendly. I got a great response, she suggested lunch. So that ENTIRE weekend we had an amazing time, told me everything I needed to hear. But she did say that she does want it to work, but just needs more time and wants to do it right. So, ok, I accept that. The following week went great. She called me and txt me. One night she called and told me that she had a bad day, but just needed to hear my voice, and even said that she loves me! Needless to say I was exstatic. But that was the last time I have talked to her (2 weeks ago). So now I'm really confused and I think I might need to detach. What do you think I should do? It seems like everything was going great, then stopped all of the sudden? My gut is telling me to stay, but I'm not sure if that is healthy or not. Thanks for your insight.
