I hope that if the day comes in my sitch where I'm getting some type of reaction / pursuing / chasing from my WAW that I can be a rock like you are being. It must be sooooo tough not to just push for the resolution you seek (in the positive direction of course). I've been called a lot of things, many by my W and unprintable, but patient has never been one of them. I'm learning it and taking to heart much of what you and others have written regarding the importance of detachment. If you look at my thread, you will see that I'm taking some baby steps on that right now, but it is all so new to me that the wounds are still open and bleeding.
Keep it up, you are a role model for some of us.
Me: 39 WAW: 40 S10, D7, S6 Bomb #1 - 12-24-06: Move out (ILYBNILWY - admitted '05 PA) Move back: 3-2-07 (W: I still want to be married to you) Bomb # 2 - 4-11-07: (W: Can't do this - never loved you) Move out again: 4-29-07 Dark: 6-8-07
