Yes, it is definitely a different way of having to look at things from what I have been taught and grown up with.

I grew up in that perverbial family where "good girls didn't do that" and what you should and shouldn't be doing, even after marriage. But I have at least come to a point in my life where I know that was wrong. I might still be a little shy and not as daring as some and my lack of numerous sex partners doesn't help but at least I am more than eager and willing to try things with my H - but he is not. The more he loves me, trusts me and respects me, the LESS he wants to do those "things". So it is a total reversal from what I consider the "norm"

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)