Hey guys -- most of you know that H is deployed for a year and I'm exploring in my head the idea of sending him a "what I'd like to be doing to you right now" email. This would be out of character for me prior to D bomb, but as I've said in other posts, I stepped out of the box a lot in this area.
Soooo, maybe I used to have a bit of the M/W syndrome backwards like DIY (I think) was talking about in Hey's thread, so I'm a bit nervous about how H will react and/or think.
What do YOU guys think?
I guess part of me hopes that this would open up a different type of communication w/ him. I'm maybe hoping that he will quit thinking of me just as his W who is at home taking care of his kids and start seeing me as the W he loves and wants to come home to. The W who really did the tea bag thing on him and no, that wasn't just a dream -- totally out of character for me !! Does that make sense? I'm really trying!!!!
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10
