You know my H is just the same. Everyone is always complimenting me, but from him I get well you're looking better or you are getting there. At first he was always asking how much I had lost, but never really saying how good I looked. Although he did one time say I looked better than he had seen me look in a long time. Wow! Believe me your H sees it, he just doesn't want to admit. Do for yourself and one day he will be like whoa, what did I give up.

You know I ran into a HS boyfriend who hasn't seen me in 20 years so he didn't see me when I was really heavy, only after this recent weight loss. He was telling me how gorgeous I still was, complimented me on my clothes, and even how good I smelled. He even called and checked up on me a few times, until I started ignoring his calls. You know I'm sure this is how affairs start with the compliments and all, but I take my vows seriously.

I'm kinda at a standstill on my weight right now. I need to get our and exercise. I lost all of this weight without exercising. Imagine how much I'll lose if I'd get moving. I'm trying to find a walking partner. Now that the school year is winding down DD doesn't stay as busy so maybe I'll get motivated.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon