Simon, It seems to help when you know that you're not the only one in here. I've also tried Mort Fertel, Divorce Remedy, and countless e-mail lists etc. The situation has made me a little more spiritual as well. Having just spoken to my wife, she says that I suffocate her by me always being around (hovering). She's at work but began crying because she says she tried for so long to get us to work that she finally gave up. She says that she is currently on here because of the kids but that the only one that would miss her would be our daughter because the boys are teenagers. She says she wants to know if she would miss me or not but feels that I'm strong arming her to make that decision. Since you're familiar with Mort Fertel, I've implemented the touch/talk charges but maybe I've done so too much. I feel so lost. I'm in IC right now and am trying to get well myself but it just feels so hopeless at times.
RCR, Please do tell. The success stories are sometimes all I have to keep me going. Hoping that you're seeing light at the end of the tunnel or have maybe even reached it.
