Quote: ---------------------------- Not to be nitpicky but I did write assertive sex. ----------------------------
Sorry, I read that wrong.
Quote: ---------------------------- He is just who he is and he can only change so much. That is basically what he tells me. He loves me and I should love him for him. ----------------------------
That's very similar to what MrsNOP thought and decided about me a couple of decades ago. Same situation for me.
It didn't work out so well.
You have to decide what you will settle for, as long as you realize that you are settling for something less than desired, and are prepared to deal with the ongoing resentment. I personally don't think that is possible to any significant degree.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
