the easiest ways to explain the M/W complex is this way
I don't have a problem with the definition of W/M. What I am encouraging you to think about is, "Is your H really in a full W/M mode?"
I certainly had many messages that girls didn’t like X, y or Z, but my mother lived with her boyfriend at the time. They eventually married but he had a long abandoned common-law wife that wasn't legally out of the picture.
My brother allowed me, my sister, and other people to live with his family. Some were girls that got pregnant. I saw the results of what some guys did to have sex and if she got PG, it was the girl’s problem, and not his concern. That is until it happened.
I was suggesting some things in your H life influenced his thinking and maybe there are other things that contribute to the W/M symptoms talked about here.
Maybe there are true W/M men, but I would say hang-ups play an important role in a marital relationship and in thinking sex is dirty, or some variation.
Look at the stereotype about women supposedly not liking sex or thinking it is dirty. Why does that happen? I tend to think there are male/female equivalents/versions of the W/M picture.
