If you want to let X take care of the lawn, help with your vehicle, etc. then let him. If it makes your life easier and saves you $$....then that's great!
You are obviously in a place of indecision. I am glad to read that you haven't yet agreed to the four week thing. However, I agree with Just_Me on having a very frank discussion with him. Let him know you are not sure this is what you want. Let him know your concerns. You really have nothing to lose and everything to gain by being homest with him. Give him a chance to voice his side of things.
You are doing so well that I really feel that having this discussion with your X will help you better gauge how you feel about this and what you want.
Stay strong and keep smiling!!!!
~SE
I'm moving on...at last I can see...life has been patiently waiting for me.
Me-32 WAH-35 DD-11 DS-4 H left 11-03 Piecing- 12/04 WAH again- 03/07 Married 12 years Divorce final May 15, 2007
