Can anyone tell me what I'm dealing with here? WAW or MLC?
No. I can't tell you. I am just someone who posts to a bulleting board. I would see a C and get a response from a real professional. Also, I would like to add that not blaming MLC for my WAW helped me to focus on my needs and not her mindset.
Also, I want you to know that my ex forgot my birthday after the bomb. And with your Valentine's Day card, just go with the notion she presented. Because a card that says "Honey, love is patient and so are you. Love you." ain't all bad.
