It sounds like the mysery might be working as she is wondering what is going on and is acting interested.
I don't blame you for worrying I would too.Try not being Mysterious all of the time(no contact for 3 days) as it does seem to effect her eating patterns. Sounds like just what you are doing is working, you are doing great! Maybe writing her a letter and telling her she can write one back instead of talking in person might help. Concerned Listener gave me that idea and it worked for me.
My H said he wants me and loves me and soon i will be moving to piecing although I'll stay for a bit just to make sure.
You are doing so good. Keep up the good work it sounds like she is starting to show baby steps. JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez