There's always room for another abusive attack from her, it's what she does best now. So she'll probably want to strike at me again, but like 1210 said, I will call the police and file a report - it will be the last time.

As far as her playing me like a fiddle, is that what she is really doing??? Last night, as soon as she went to work, she called me from there and said she was sorry. Well, too much abuse that I have sustained from her over the years. I have not been a good boy scout either, but I am not the same person I was before, I hope everyone here can say that about me.

At this point, I am cold towards her. And it's helping me to see clearer.

Everyone here agrees that I should get her to some help, or end it.

My best friend, who is like a brother to me, and his wife said I should get out of the M.

My mom says the same thing, but she's only looking out for her son's best interest, though I appreciate that she's on my side.

even the nagging co=worker who likes to twist my sitch around and get me fired up, says that I need to grow a backbone and make a choice - I guess he's tired of me talking about my problems...so I have ended communication with him for good.

I guess I need to stop having these emotions, and just tell her we are going to counseling or to the lawyers.

I'm trying to get a cool head here......

Last edited by sol1696; 05/15/07 05:13 PM.

~Sol

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Single Dad, and luvin it!
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