Choc: take the negative w/ a grain of salt.

As long as the flowers, etc. are ALONG WITH a concerted effort to work out the "kinks" so to speak in your M, you are going in the right direction. As long as the affection and loving attention are along w/ knowing that you guys need to address and work on what has happened to your M/R over the years and work together on it, you're going in the right direction \:\)

Oh and the bras & panties could have been for her and only her to feel sexier, etc.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10