The bra and panties. Hm, you have to look at it with total objectivity. You haven't had sex in over 3 years.
1. She is buying them to entice you.
2. She is buying them to entice an OM.
3. She is buying them to look at herself in the mirror.
Only she knows for sure. I wouldn't dwell on this ans it will only make you crazy. Take a deep breath and focus.
I like the card, notes, and flowers but I must caution you to not go overboard with this stuff. Or you will come across like a desperate puppy trying to buy her affection through the standard fare.
Why I say this is you cannot discount that at some point Mrs. Choc might start to turn angry at your sudden newfound attentions and say to herself:
"Oh, so, NOW he notices me? Now he wants me and will fight for me when it's almost too late? When he gets a hint that he might lose me?"
Again, deep breath, measured love deposits. An alpha comes on steady and strong, not all jumpy and panting and impatient, kwis?
-Stigmata-
The difference between a warrior and an ordinary man is the warrior views everything as a challenge; the ordinary man views everything as either a blessing or a curse.
-Yaqui shaman Don Juan-
...and that holds 2x true for nice guy wussies, DJ