Choc wrote:"NOP, let me be sure I follow you. Are you saying it's GOOD to take the fantasy out of it for her, or it's BAD? I'm thinking it's GOOD, as she's made a bunch of comments recently, esp. to our daughters when talking about their own BF problems, that "sometimes it's good to keep them guessing." It's like she WANTS more intrigue in her life???"

I am saying that exposing the secret game that she and other man are playing takes away a portion of the fantasy, the unhealthy portion.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.