Oldtimer wrote:"I think you will find that pretty uniformly it has been UNhelpful."
I am not chasing you down to disagree with you, BUT.
Your statement above seems to be true only on this bulletin board. I have found that every other BB and forum on this subject that I participate on, to consider confrontation and exposure a uniformly GOOD idea.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.