Oldtimer wrote:"I think you will find that pretty uniformly it has been UNhelpful."

I am not chasing you down to disagree with you, BUT.

Your statement above seems to be true only on this bulletin board. I have found that every other BB and forum on this subject that I participate on, to consider confrontation and exposure a uniformly GOOD idea.

All the best,
-NOPkins-


I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.