I like you stopping by the gym A LOT!!

I guess I agree w/ NOP's last post -- if she knows you know that either she is or may have been or even may have been thinking about an EA, and knows that you aren't going to be ok w/ that and it needs to end immediately if you guys are going to work on your M, that would probably be the best. That way, she will know the boundaries, etc. She can't have it both ways. To tell you the truth though, even if they were TM'ing, it may not have been all that serious.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10