Here is something to keep in mind from a tactical point of view while you decide whether to confront or not.
The other man is also going to step up his efforts once he sees you doing so. Keeping what you know a secret merely ices the cake as the middle (your wife) gets played from both sides. Her knowing that you know takes some of the fantasy out of that.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
