IS,
Glad to hear about the discussion between you and your W. All the things you're saying sound correct. Realistic expectations will be a key.

CL

CL 53 W 54
M 20 yrs.
03'-09' Separation + Old Patterns + GAL
10-14' Piecing

"The Master allows things to happen. She shapes events as they come."

----Tao Te Ching