Ok. My First Thread in Many Moons

[LustForLife]

It's helping GEL.
But of course I have to debate some of it.

Eventually, if you had pursued a long-term R with this OM that R would have settled in as well....all R's eventually do.

Yes, settled in with hot sex every day while he annoyed me with his lack of communication.

Whereas now I have very little sex but plenty of I love you's, affection, you get the idea.
But still as you stated, apples and oranges.
I'm not being unrealistic here. I know the OM lacked many qualitites that I also find very important (beyond the hot sex) in a R. He just embodies the one very quality that I want being the HD woman that I am. So that just sucks.
Life ain't fair.
LFL