GEL - and I am sure it has more to do with the complex they (we) are going through than the similarities in our lives.

I don't know if it is a protection mechanism for me or if it really is the case but I truly feel sorry for him (guess that's the nurturing side of me). He is struggling with not being able to understand what needs to be done. He is a VERY intelligent man and it frustrates him to no end.

He had nothing but wonderful things to say about me to the C yesterday and he really does want to "fix" this but doesn't even know where to begin. I think the thought of going to see someone else, since he is pretty comfortable with the C we have now, especially to talk about "sex" (God forbid!!) scares him a little too

Heywyre

M - 57
H - 65
1st A-bomb - Nov 27/02
2nd A-bomb - Dec 13/06
together 21 years
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Insanity is doing something over and over and expecting different results (Albert Einstein)