I am sorry you are here. You are not alone. There are a lot of resources on the top of the page, read those. It doesn't matter if your wife is WAW or MLCer. This is a time to focus on you. You aren't in a bad spot. She is home and still talks to you. Remember to not take what they say personally. She doesn't know what she wants and it will change from one minute to the next. Give her loving space, keep posting and venting here.
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing