Yes, Divorce Remedy. (I assume you've already read PM which I think is GREAT for building real intimacy.)
"E-mail has always worked well for us, followed by personal talking and a loving hug."
Great, the email lets communication be effective and the in-person stuff solidifies it, makes it real, and allows for the direct emotional/physical interaction to bring it home.
Re switching boards -- it is good that you have a strong support system here. And, splitting posts between two boards really doesn't work that well. Perhaps you might want to post a request in Piecing for a few people to look at your sitch here and help out. I think you'd probably get some takers, especially because, on my reading, your sitch sounds pretty optimistic. Of course I could be off-base, but I'm generally one for trying to get people OUT of denial about how bad their sitches are. I'm not one for empty cheerleading.
