Thanks for the encouragement!!! It really means a lot to me.
What is "DR"? Not familiar with that. Is it a book? "Divorce Remedy," perhaps?
I've long felt I was on the wrong board, as our problems were so much more than SEX at this point. More about communication, respect, SELF-respect, boundary-setting, "getting the spark" back, with some MLC thrown into the mix.
But you guys are the group that I knew, and with whom I felt comfortable. There is SUCH a great mix of male and female, alphas and betas, from all stages of relationships, and everyone is so helpful. So here I've come.
E-mail has always worked well for us, followed by personal talking and a loving hug. We both get EXTREMELY DEFENSIVE, and we don't "fight well." We don't even communicate particularly well, but with the written word we're both pretty good. I just think the part of my protecting my -- and the family's -- interests needs to be done in person, kwim?
