I saw nothing in your W’s response to indicated she is leaving, or wants a D, or is sick of you. All I saw was lots of despair, just like your recent posts. Emotion clouds her outlook, yet there was nothing definitive in her words. To me she is lost too.
Cobra,
It did occur to me that nowhere in her internet time (I have a keylogger) has she searched "Divorce" or "Separation" or even anything to do with "getting the spark back in a marriage" or even "marriage". My wife is the type that ALWAYS turns to the internet when she wants to learn something more about a topic. All of her searches lately have been "Older Man Younger Women" and "How to Look Sexy" and "Pretty Bras and Panties" and "Older Younger Relationships."
So that's good (doesn't seem to want a divorce), and that's bad (trying to make herself more attractive to younger men). I think she's largely living in a fantasy land inside of her head right now, in that thinking about things like "divorce," "separation" or even "infidelity" or "affairs" hasn't even crossed her radar screen yet.
