O.K. Sol,

HERE IT COMES....

Do you see the pattern yet?

What is going to happen before this weekend in your sitch?

Do not be a sucker here SOL. Stand your ground and do what you have to do to protect yourself and your kids. Your W needs help and if she is not going to get it you are screwed the longer you stick around here and so are your kids.

SOL, no offense but you wife has a lot of issue not to mention is playing you like a fiddle right now. As soon as she feels that you are really going to leave she place nice. When she feels comfortable she picks fights (WITH YOUR HELP OFCOURSE).

This is where you need to "Man the F^CK Up" and take control for your own sanity as well as you kids. You continue to travel down the cheeseless tunnel and are not doing anything about it. Mostlikely because of the kids and I totally understand that. However, she is not going to change if you do not help her in anyway.

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IF YOU CHANGE THE DYNAMICS OF THE RELATIONSHIP THE RELATIONSHIP HAS TO CHANGE!!


So what are you going to do SOL?

I am not trying to be a D!CK but I just see the same thing over and over and over again because you are putting her above your own wellfair as well as your kids.

THINK ABOUT IT BEFORE YOU RESPOND....

Your friend always,
Ben


Ben 32
STBXW 29
3 kids (D1,S4,SD8) (1 dog 5months)
Status: Fighting for the Kids.

"The only thing we know about future developments is that they will develope."