Amen! I know how you feel. BUT, as one who has been through one divorse, divorse isn't worth it either. If I have to choose which is the lesser of two evils, trying to work on the marriage is definately the winner. Am I happily married, no. But what the hell is the alternative? I feel like I loose either way. Sorry to sound so glum, but I cannot tell you if I will stay or go. I take one day at a time. My h is certainly trying, but he keeps me financially in the dark and I don't like it. I already have to overcome his A. But I can tell you first hand. Divorse is much, much worse.
