before you go ahead and say "because we love them" or "we made a committment" those are not the answers I'm looking for as I feel those are just cop-outs.

why do we put up with this crap. Why when I come here looking to see if there's someone who's gone through this...gotten back together and is actually truly happy with their m now...all I find is people still putting up with crap from their spouse that they would tell their friends or family not to put up with.

why do we allow ourselves to be treated with disrespect in hopes of someday getting the love we deserve from the people we married?

This all just doesn't seem worth it.