Ok, let's backtrack just a minute. This "Pam" was his EA and this was recent right? Via email type thing?

I guess I'm just not understanding why he keeps bringing up the past -- that was all before you guys got married, etc.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10