Funny you should say that, but I decided last nite that was a non-negotiable item this time. I let her deflect it the last time, and that's not going to happen again. Not only do we both have a lot of issues that could use a MC's help to draw out, but we're also both horrible communicators. We need a trained facilitator.
Her coldness and rejection of me are her responsibility, as is the breaking of her promise to go see the C last time. Failing to draw the boundaries right then and there, when these things happened, are mine.