Wife hits me.....need help....

[~Sol]

Whatis.....part of her blow outs are that I am the one that triggers them. I know it's a MAJOR communication breakdown that is going on....

she won't HEAR me out (how I feel, etc)

and I can't understand her moods....

But there is that anger there.....both of us need to get to anger mgt. And she needs more help.

Doing something different is just what I need to do. I need to marinate on this one, but you are right, I am not giving into her pattern, and I need to break my own cycle too.....

In a way, I can relate to her blow ups....they used to be MY blowups, and I got aggressive.... not anymore though.

I am going on AD's too, maybe I can give some to my W???? A nice week with civil behavior between the 2 of us would be nice for a change.