Choc, don't know you very well, but I'm so glad you did what you did. You took the first step.

I have to say that, from her reply, it sounds like you two could really put things back together.

Just stay "open" with your feelings, emotions, etc. with her. Tell her how much you love her and don't want to lose her. Tell her you are ready, willing and able to figure out what you two can do to put things back together.

It sounds as if you both still know you are meant to be together, you just lost touch. Get that back -- put in the effort it takes to keep it. It will be so worth it.

I think from her email, you are at a point where, as long as you continue to make it known that you aren't willing to just give up just b/c you two have kind of let things go for so long, you can start working on getting things back to where they need to be.

Good luck!! It can be done.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10