So one scenario is I just become a monk and raise my son while a woman lives in my house that is dating another man? I’m being sarcastic here but how much of a father can I be if my mind and soul is being eaten away from our living arraignments’? Believe me I do not want a divorce…. but…… If it were to happen my son would have a lot more of my time with my Ws problems out of the way. Don’t beat on me too hard but the fact is I have had to overcome some pretty devastating hard ships in my past. I have learned that there are some things you can’t change. You can sit around and feel sorry for yourself or you adapt. I lost my leg in a car accident. I have and artificial one and I get around pretty good. I can’t run but besides that I have adapted to my limitations. I work full time and I have my own Firewood business on the side. My first wife became addicted to drugs and left me with a 3moD and a 3yr D. I raised them until I met my current wife. Being that My D’s were so young the D didn’t seem to have any effect on them. Unfortunately my son in 10 and at a very tender age. At 18-19 there would be no problem in fact it would have given me someone to talk to about my problems but at 10 he is still innocent in the evils of the world.
As for imagining some other guy living with my wife and raising my son? What I see is that my son is living with me,I am raising my son and my wife is out there living with who knows still "trying to find herself".
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
