Need another opinion, is my W OM, friend or more?

[andyv]

Yeah mate, I hear U.

I suppose with time, things do get easier. I just hope that neither of us get too fed up with the whole situation and give up hope.

I don't know about yourself, but I am the sort of person that finds it hard to forgive people that have hurt me or my family (DD). I know our wives are going through a really tough time, and I really want things to work out, hence the detaching and giving her space etc.

The thing that keeps me going is that she has done nothing wrong in the 16 years we have been together. I owe it to her to be there for her as long as it takes, but I am so emotionally exhausted.

I hope it does not get to divorce. I will keep DBing until that date, but once those papers are signed, I honestly can't see me going back.

Thx for your feedback Husband, much appreciated.