Well, wife and D5 are back in the house now for 3 days.They have moved out twice, mainly to me pushing and begging then getting angry. Wife needed some space.
So they are back.
W has agreed that we can work on the marriage/ R. She still says she has no feelings for me, does not love or find me "physically attractive" But she will work on it. She will not go on a "date" even just to the cinema as friends, but she says she is working on it! there is extremely little physical contact, only i can give her a peck on the cheek, she wont do it to me. But she will work on it!! notice the thread! why do i have to do all the work!!!!! SHE said she wants to work on the M/R i am 100% delighted and in agreement! but why must i still suffer!
She has all the space she needs, i am working midday till midnight at the moment, i see her for 1 hr in the morning.
I have read, DR/DB and the 5 love languages, i am in therapy for "anger management!" (the only reason i used to get angry was because my wife bottles up her feelings!) i am listening to her and keeping my mouth shut, i am using her love languages, Acts of service and Words of affirmation 100% but even when i do these she sneers! maybe thinking they are just to get her back!!?????
I have a high sex drive, and no touch or ML is killing me! you see im of the frame of mind if you want to give it a try, give it a try 100% dive in feet first! only 2 people can make this great!
