Well, whenever you get that feeling again, just imagine some other guy living with your wife and raising your son. I see that a lot with my friends and others going through divorce. And suprisingly it happens before the divorce is even finalized!!! In addition, it's usually like WWIII between all the ex's/girlfriends/boyfriends/new spouses, etc... Oftentimes things start off relatively civil, but in time they usually deteriorate and get super ugly.

So... you think you have problems, you have no idea how bad it could be!!!

Be thankful for what you do have. Your wife didn't leave you. She didn't take your son away...

(Sorry for harping here! I work in education and see a lot kids whose parents are going through divorce or dealing with divorce issues. Sometimes it makes me sooo angry!).

There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.