Thanks Cog... You once again are right. I get furious when he mentions her name. And it is even more pathetic that he is being nice to her. Sure he is trying to be polite but in the mean time I am getting "laughed" at. But like you said.. instead of trying to control it.... I did tell him what I needed to say and I know she will not stop she is NUTS! No exaggeration at all whatsoever!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know he was trying to "cover up "that he was accepting her calls to begin with so my BLOOD WOULD NOT BOIL. I stated several times before this that I did not want to hear her name ,, I guess he thought I was not serious. And I also remember when I went to see mY hubby in INDY.. he called his friends cell and she answered and I made no emotions.. and he said when he got off the phone why does she have to answer when she knows it is me?

I dunno,, cause she is needy and kinda weird???

BUT I JUST SHRUGGED MY SHOULDERS... also the day I confronted her over the phone and told her that she can do whatever she needs to do but to leave me out of it ,,, she told me she had better things to worry about that her life was not a bowl of cherries and then I got viscious ,, welll viscious for me. I said well I did not call you to talk to you @ your problems I called to tell you to leave me out of your conversations young lady,, I do not say a mean thing @ you ....

and some more and then she hung up on me and had the nerve to call my H.
Why should I be suprised she did plenty of things before I chose to stop being friends with her that were offensive to me but being who I am I would let them go but the pile of sh*t just got too high.

It is sad really that she would treat me this way.. I was the only person that really cared about her. I even told my H before this that I actually felt sorry for her b/c if he really is the only person she can call when she is in a bind how sad. But alas my H is just part of her sick little game.
WOW that got long.... its not really jealousy to me it is more like she is slapping me in the face and my H too when they speak. If she were still my close friend I would not mind. And if she wasn't a compulsive liar.
God bless..