It is said that they often need to hit bottom somehow to wake up. Unfortunately sometimes it takes years and in some cases they never really get over it. Thats especially true if there are other issues involved as well. In my situation for example, my W is an exceptionally attractive woman and is a master at manipulating other people into giving her what she needs. Itallows her to keep lying to herself and everyone else about who is responsible for the garbagein her life. Consequently she may never truly hit bottom and may never get better. It sucks.
Stand up for what is right, even if you are standing alone.
