Will Closure Ever Occur?

[Confused_in_AZ]

So, the X calls tonight. Decided I am going to start calling her Loopy for now. Calls and tells me about all of the bad things that are going on at the office, how she is so far behind due to other office activities and she hopes to get back on track. Proceeds to tell me about her other distant family members that she recently saw and what they are doing these days.

Finally, after 30 mins, asks if we could get together so that she can give a movie back to me I lent and to ask if I will continue to share the Sam's Club account and to pay this year (she paid last year). I agreed and we are going to meet next week. She inquired about dinner and thought "that might be fun"....okay.

So, Loopy wants to stay somewhat in my life and have me in hers, but I am just starting to get the feeling that this is not right! How can you be friends with someone that you were M to for 10 years and act as if nothing happened? I stopped giving her information this evening. If she asks me, I will tell her honestly, but I am not offering anything. I guess distancing myself again from her will help me figure out what I really am after? Reconciliation or complete Seperation!