My parents have just returned from a month long trip. They have always loved my wife and have been very concerned. My mother sent my wife an email and she responded with the follow and sent me a copy also:
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Mom,
I would truly prefer that you spoke with me. I am the one who asked for the divorce. My parents have remained neutral yet supportive during my decision. They realize that although this decision touches others lives, it's truly between {HusbandName} and me.
I realize that I cancelled seeing you before you left, but 3 1/2 weeks ago emotions were very raw and {HusbandName} and I had things we needed to talk about before I spoke with you. I know you arrived home on Tuesday, but I also know that with time adjustments as well as things to be done (laundry etc.) I was giving you time to settle back in. Also, during one of mine and {HusbandName} discussions, he said he would talk with you all and tell you why I felt I could no longer remain married, so I was giving him that time as well. After {HusbandName} talks with you, I will be more than happy to sit and talk with you and Pop. I would like to remain friends with you both as well as {HusbandName}. {HusbandName} and I are trying to do that. I truly love you both as well as the extended family and I hope that once we talk that you can understand my reasoning, and if not, at least respect it.
I will be in touch,
{WifeName}
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Should I respond to this?
I do understand that my wife is unhappy and I understand why she is unhappy. However, I don't understand why she feels that divorce is the only answer. I think all can be worked out. Her email sounds very final.
I'd like to get other's opinions on this. Please help me!!
