Whore/Madonna

[Heywyre]

GEL - I hear ya!!

C said 5-6 sessions but I told H there is no way I am waiting 5-6 sessions to see if something is happening. I will give him 1-2 more and that's it. Then I will ask for a referral to someone that has dealt with this before (like the ST he said he would refer us to). It's all great and fine to sit around having a good little chat but if they don't know how to actually address the issue, we might as well keep our $$ in our pocket

I know this isn't something that can be fixed overnight but I am not about to waste - and that's what it would be, wasting - money on counselling when its not going anywhere

H is feeling so much better these past few days and it rubs off on me, which makes him feel better all the more.

I am looking forward to our session on Friday, and what progress we can accomplish over the next few days inbetween. I figure if H doesn't follow through on what he is telling us to do in between the sessions, he needs someone a little more forceful.

This ST that C said he would refer us to says most of the issues he deals with are dealt with within 5-6 sessions. That doesn't mean the work stops, but at least things are back on track - including W/M complex. So, no, I am not about to sit around waiting for something to happen, when I can be moving forward sooner