Sorry to bust in like this because I was definitely sorry to read this thread this morning when you first posted but that statement I quoted above has to be the biggest load of bull I've heard from you since you first came here a few months ago.
Ask yourself this: while you were busy loving "too much and too deeply", how much of THAT REALLY boiled down to kissing her ass???
I'm thinking Frank_D could help you get in touch with your "authentic self" that he's always talking about to the other men. Basically, man up. With dignity, self-respect, courtesy, boundaries and ....ahem....balls.
But maybe I've got it all wrong.
Either way, I'm really sorry things are as they appear to be so I'm really not going to bust your chops for jumping the gun back in March...
Ain't it great that with God we can get a "do-over"?
