Just curious...what, SPECIFICALLY, does desire look and feel like to you? I ask because with my XH, there were times when I thought I was showing all kinds of desire and he was not picking up on it at all. He had MAJOR abandonment issues and sometimes did not trust in what he was seeing/feeling. From my side of things, it felt like not only could I not be subtle at all when trying to initiate (or showing my openness to him initiating), but that I had to be over the top with the signals I would send out to the point of being crass/crude (which kind of killed my desire.)
Bear
The voyage of discovery is not in seeking new landscapes but in having new eyes.
--Marcel Proust
