I never told my children that H wanted a Divorce. I had decided that IF he ever filed, then I would tell them. I also think that because I never bad mouthed him it made things easier for them when he came home.
My oldest D19 was also the closest to her Dad. They have been getting along really well and I think he is the one making the effort. Our kids are much more loving and forgiving then we are.
((((Faith))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
