Heywyre, explore your H not wanting to be a pest or that your H thought some things he liked sexually were above and beyond what you or he was comfortable doing.
W/H sounds so black/white. I can guess from my own hang ups and all of the things I heard when I was growing up (girls don't like...... ) he might have several thoughts in his mind about some things couples do or don’t do that hold him back.
Shortly after we moved in our house, we bought a chest type freezer. Well I was hot for some sex that day so sat BB on a towel on the freezer lid and proceeded to make out standing up. I was extremely sexually excited and thought a nooner was a very good idea. We did it. I always wondered if BB thought I was a pest. I wondered if I should have had sex with her on the new freezer or stopped at kissing.
With all of the "girls don't like........" messages I heard for so many years it just took some of the fun out of the encounter back then. Today it would be great fun and I wouldn't worry about what some "girls don't like" messages from the past.
Rather than explore W/M, talk about his hang ups, if your H will.
