Stubborn, maybe this will perk up your day (it does mine!). Yesterday we went to see D's dance performance at the theatre. My new friend was also there (she and I had purposely arranged to buy tickets to the same performance) to see her D. At intermission I notice her looking into the seats for me, we then see each other and we're waving frantically at each other, in front of my W. My new friend meets us in the lobby and wishes my W a Happy Mothers Day and then says to my W "and what would your name be?" W tells her and then starts introducing my mother "this is my MIL X and this is (pointing to my friend)...umm, umm", she doesn't know my friends name, so she stands there going "umm", that cracked me up (inside of course). W then looks to me and I have to finish the introductions. Well, W sure knows her name now! That just brought a perverse little bit of joy to my heart watching my friend, although not purposely, embarass my W in front of my whole family! I hope it brought a glimmer to yours too.