Andyv I’m not sure either but from what I have read here it seems that our Ws are in la la land. But sooner or later reality hits. That’s when they think “what the hell was I thinking”. It seems sometimes it takes the D for them to hit reality. I’m hopping in my sitch it does not go that far. I think it did, she would have to do a lot of begging to come back. I have been so patient and my heart has torn apart over and over again. No my W has not hit me nor have we gotten into any fights. But my sitch is like a cancer slowly killing me. If I did get D. (got rid of the cancer) Why would I want to go back? Of course I’m saying that now. My mind and plans change lanes six times a day.
Stay strong, Have patients but as you I can only wait for so long. It’s one thing GAL but besides a life I want and need a companion. No matter how much DB I do if my W does not give me any. I can’t stay in the R. H
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
