LFL wrote: "He just hurts me with his emotional withdrawal. Still."

Yep, that is exactly his response to his pain toward you.

You might think that you two have come to some sort of agreement, but you haven't. I promise you, he is hurt far more than you know. His reactions to your antics or nights out with the girls - all proof of his pain. His walking out hurt you, but don't even entertain the notion that he is not devastated as well. He is.

The both of you need an actual honest conversation about how you really feel, not some measured response.

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.