LFL...you must get over this guy to give your M a chance to survive and thrive. If the door is open to him even a crack you sabotage the progress you have made in your marriage.
I know myself well enough to know that is absolute truth. Thus, a "nail in the coffin" email is necessary.
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Ok, you want to be honest? Your marriage won't be on solid ground until YOU fully commit to it, and you can't be fully committed til you put him behind you.
Make sense?
Perfect sense. But as others have so easily struggled with this concept, so do I. Why/how can I fully commit when my H continues to ignore the sexual issues, the OM issues, etc. Why would he do that?
