Email him back, tell him you've reconciled with your husband, that you think back upon him fondly and wish him the very, very best.
I'm leaning towards this option now because if I leave it "undone" I will be tempted to say something I shouldn't down the line when I'm feeling extra vulnerable.
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I understand your hestitation to tell him it's a done deal because you don't know if your M is on solid ground. It's perfectly normal to feel longing, hesitation, temptation. But LFL, it's time to take the bull by the horns and get a grip on these feelings you have.
See, this is where I get frustrated with H. Why isn't HE "taking the bull by the horns"? Why isn't he reading this thread right now (as he could be) and confronting me on this craziness? But no, he ignores a great deal. That is HIS choice.
